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remember the very wise words of the immortal Chuck Wow when reading this post; "I am not sure what your money is buying you, but it sure as hell ain't loyalty"
or the simple yet effective terminology that Blue Ballz gives to guys who send their hard-earned cash to ladyboy hookers; "More baht than brains"
5 years ago I met a special little girl through a childrens charity from the slums of Din Daeng in Bangkok. We started to sponsor her, and once or twice a year I am lucky enough to meet with her. 2 months ago we had another great visit; she and her sister and mom came to my apartment and then down to tesco-lotus for a shopping trip. It was so cool to see my little angel go from a young girl who used to buy barbie dolls and toys into a pre-teen who now prefers make-up and clothes and I even got her a boom box and some CD's from some Thai boy bands. We had a nice lunch, and I gave the Mom 10,000 baht before they got into the taxi to go back to their 1500/month 1-room shack with no plumbing in the slums. from her I got a deep Wai and a smile, and a sincere "Kampun Ka"; from my 12-year old angel I got a hug and a kiss and "Kampun Ka; Chun Rak Khun" [I love you]. Worth it? sure.
Now, if you tried sending a paltry 10,000 baht to a ladyboy hooker, her first response would be "Is that all?" I mean, she can make that in 2 or 3 dates so what's the big deal? The 100 bucks a month I send to my child is 4000 baht and enough to help her family immensely; send that to a ladyboy and she will laugh and buy some new shoes. I have seen guys send 30,40, even 50,000 baht and more per month to these bargirls and ladyboys [believe me, I know it's insane but it happens every day], and their girls are STILL not faithful. They could send 100,000 per month, doesn't matter; if the sucker is only in Thailand 1 or 2 months per year his girl WILL be seeing other guys for money and/or have a Thai boyfriend. If you guys that are sending dough don't believe this and you think your beloved is home watching the tube until you come back in 4 months, please get a clue.
send money if you choose, but pick the target correctly. I will know my girl from the time she was 7 hopefully for her whole life, and in 10 or 15 years I can look back and say that the cash I sent to help her grow was well-spent. I have NEVER seen a farang/ladyboy relationship last more than a year or 2 max, so exactly what are they sending the cash for?
One ladyboy and myself were having a good laugh about this recently [in bed, by the way]. She was getting 40+ or more every month from some guy in the states, who of course figures she is being faithful; her friends didn't even want to know his name or what he looked like or the fact that he was twice her age, just " what have you gotten from him lately?" same with her; as a matter of fact, she dreaded his 2 or 3 trips per year there because she actually had to spend time with him! and all along this guy who is in a non-reciprocal love affair apparantly feels it is more important to buy his girl the latest Gucci handbag or some 300 dollar dress than help his own family or some poor family who needs it much more than she does.
guys spending hard-earned money on girls that look at you as a walking ATM and not as a love interest, despite what she may be telling you... wake up. and if you don't like reading the truth about this shit and prefer to believe that you are the one and only, than don't read here.
or the simple yet effective terminology that Blue Ballz gives to guys who send their hard-earned cash to ladyboy hookers; "More baht than brains"
5 years ago I met a special little girl through a childrens charity from the slums of Din Daeng in Bangkok. We started to sponsor her, and once or twice a year I am lucky enough to meet with her. 2 months ago we had another great visit; she and her sister and mom came to my apartment and then down to tesco-lotus for a shopping trip. It was so cool to see my little angel go from a young girl who used to buy barbie dolls and toys into a pre-teen who now prefers make-up and clothes and I even got her a boom box and some CD's from some Thai boy bands. We had a nice lunch, and I gave the Mom 10,000 baht before they got into the taxi to go back to their 1500/month 1-room shack with no plumbing in the slums. from her I got a deep Wai and a smile, and a sincere "Kampun Ka"; from my 12-year old angel I got a hug and a kiss and "Kampun Ka; Chun Rak Khun" [I love you]. Worth it? sure.
Now, if you tried sending a paltry 10,000 baht to a ladyboy hooker, her first response would be "Is that all?" I mean, she can make that in 2 or 3 dates so what's the big deal? The 100 bucks a month I send to my child is 4000 baht and enough to help her family immensely; send that to a ladyboy and she will laugh and buy some new shoes. I have seen guys send 30,40, even 50,000 baht and more per month to these bargirls and ladyboys [believe me, I know it's insane but it happens every day], and their girls are STILL not faithful. They could send 100,000 per month, doesn't matter; if the sucker is only in Thailand 1 or 2 months per year his girl WILL be seeing other guys for money and/or have a Thai boyfriend. If you guys that are sending dough don't believe this and you think your beloved is home watching the tube until you come back in 4 months, please get a clue.
send money if you choose, but pick the target correctly. I will know my girl from the time she was 7 hopefully for her whole life, and in 10 or 15 years I can look back and say that the cash I sent to help her grow was well-spent. I have NEVER seen a farang/ladyboy relationship last more than a year or 2 max, so exactly what are they sending the cash for?
One ladyboy and myself were having a good laugh about this recently [in bed, by the way]. She was getting 40+ or more every month from some guy in the states, who of course figures she is being faithful; her friends didn't even want to know his name or what he looked like or the fact that he was twice her age, just " what have you gotten from him lately?" same with her; as a matter of fact, she dreaded his 2 or 3 trips per year there because she actually had to spend time with him! and all along this guy who is in a non-reciprocal love affair apparantly feels it is more important to buy his girl the latest Gucci handbag or some 300 dollar dress than help his own family or some poor family who needs it much more than she does.
guys spending hard-earned money on girls that look at you as a walking ATM and not as a love interest, despite what she may be telling you... wake up. and if you don't like reading the truth about this shit and prefer to believe that you are the one and only, than don't read here.
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