sexy vs pornography

[snejana_demientrovska]

sexy

how do you define sexy

for me when you want to put sexuality in an object or a subject in much more decent way and much more attractive and more artistic point of view......something that even when you are fully clothes as long as you show and flaunt your assests that can attract and seduce the opposite sex or even the same sex as yours......but its not just wearing some clothes it also includes putting some make ups...poosing in some pictures and also in the way youur body languae moves

here is a perfect example of sexy lesbian scene

[snejana_demientrovska]

pornographic

sexuality that becomes too vulgar and obscene focusing on one sex object and it sometimes get gross and sometime the art will be gone and become and object of perversion

ever seen some porno movies sometimes it get so gross focusing on the private area while having sex and too dirty compare to watching an R-rated movies were they are so sexy on making love

heres is what a picture of pornography on a lesbian scene

[snejana_demientrovska]

post-opt model

sexy as i define it

[snejana_demientrovska]

pornographic

post-opt pics

[brocklanders]

The differences are more subtle than you think and there is a lot of grey area in many photos.

For me, the first post op model I would define as PERFECT

[katoeylover]

I prefer sexy to porn most of the time. There has to be an element of imagination there. Sometimes pornography can be too much!! , but thats just me!! (no doubt i will be flamed!!)

[Guest]

For me I prefer the sexy look (as in your first pic) over the porno.
Even fully clothed with a little make up and a girl can look incredibly sexy, just my view for what it's worth.

[stogie bear]

It's a mistake to compare sexy with pornographic.

The way a woman walks can be sexy. The way she eats her food or even smokes a cigarette can be sexy. A woman can be sexy with a kiss or a blow job. Only a blow job can be characterised as pornographic.

So it's possible to be sexy and pornographic! (Doesn't happen often though, does it!)

Many people would say that their porno collection was very sexy!

I would rather differentiate between 'erotica' and porn as both can be sexy.

Also, finally, sex is in the eye of the beholder... (if you aim right!)

Something that I don't find sexy can still have appeal as erotica. For example... I'm not into men having sex. It's a turnoff for me, but I can see the beauty and erotic value of some photos taken with two men together.

The porn industry is deservedly flat as not many people have the ability or the integrity to combine erotica and porn for a mass market.

I feel that on this site we do actually manage a reasonable balance of sex, porn and erotica.

 I'm on pills! I won't post garbage like that any more, I promise!  

[snejana_demientrovska]

i dont know where i get this kind of idea but i sometimes compare two factors like pornography and being sexy......i look at a lot of woman, ladyboys and guys in person and in the pictures and the movies........and even in the porno movies......sometimes i can compare such object as being pornographic.....or sexy....

like ive told you
pornographic in a sense that they become vulgar and being too obscene which loose the thrill of sex.....or sexuality......too much and extremes is very unsexy and now labeled in my opinion as pornographic

compare a girl wearing little black dress so classy wearing diamond jewelries perfect make up nice stylish shoes....showing some a little bit skin....wow sexy as hell

but a girl wearing a little black dress.......showing clevage...so short hem in a leg area and showing her panties as she sit...make up so drag dressing up like showing her body and soul......wearing fancy higheels......perverted look...now thats pornographic

for me sexy is being more minimal in sexuality, seduction or provocation......if you dress and want to look sexy make it more smart and make it less vulgar.....

[stogie bear]

Four posts deleted for being off topic.

[jellybean]

I agree with Stogie and Katoeylover - the difference between erotica and porn is that erotica leaves something to the imagination whereas porn leaves nothing to the imagination....depending on my mood I like both

[Looker]

(stogie bear @ Aug. 10 2006,18:14) It's a mistake to compare sexy with pornographic.

Not sure about that..
As a non english speaker, I have taken the freedom to browse my Oxford Advance Learner's Dictionary and in all the three definition as erotic, pornographic and sexy, the meaning ends up to one only sentence "causing sexual desire/excitement".
So, that leads me to understand that we are talking about the same meat cooked in three different sauces, so that semantic scolars can get a job.
And I should imagine that at the end in all of the three cases the images passing through our brains are in the end of sex, sex, sex and more sex..........

[katoeylover]

Of course, Looker, but using your analogy, Porn is a plain steak, or roast meet, where as exoticas has a nice Au Poivre sauce covering it.

Take away the Sauce and all you have got left is the "Meat"!!

[Stewart]

on this site we do actually manage a reasonable balance of sex, porn and erotica.

Easy on the erotica please!

[shaggedout]

(snejana_demientrovska @ Aug. 10 2006,14:26) sexuality that becomes too vulgar and obscene focusing on one sex object and it sometimes get gross and sometime the art will be gone and become and object of perversion

.......... under which category would you place photographs of a Filipino ladyboy jacking off to completion?