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A couple of questions for all of you experienced people.
First a bit of background, as I am very new around here:
I'm 35, consider myself to be bisexual (just to pre-empt the whole gay - not gay discussion) and have been desiring ladyboys since my teens. From my late 20's onwards I have been indulging with increasing enthusiasm
Mostly my experiences have been with latin american she-males and some caucasian ones.
I have always loved asian women (have had a lot of asian girlfriends), and the Holy Grail has always been an asian ladyboy. Well maybe a lot more than one, but you know what I mean... I have only ever had an overnight stay in BKK and my entire experience of LOS and ladyboys is based on that. Not exactly an amazing track record!
Also, sexually, it is paramount for me that my partner receives as much pleasure as possible. There is nothing more stimulating than making them lose control. Just the way I am wired I suppose, the idea of just sticking it in and slaming away for an hour just doesnt do it for me. At all! (unless actually slamming is what floats their boat, then call me jackhammer
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I have never had a problem reconciling this preference with the P4P situation, somehow (aside from the usual percentage of dud encounters), I have felt (whether accurately or because it was sold to me successfully is unimportant) that my partners did actually get some pleasure out of the whole thing. Also, I am not yet aware of any way to fake an orgasm accompanied by a cum-fountain
Now to my question:
Reading through the forum, I have come across quite a few posts saying that ladyboys don't actually enjoy being sucked, played with, or topping even when they are technically able to. They may come, but they resent the experience? Also some of the posters who manage to have slightly more human relationships with the girls seem to be asian themselves (I'm thinking of FF, D_P, etc). Obviously a lot is down to personality, it's just a pattern that seems to be emerging.
How accurate is that? I mean are ladyboys so different from their latin-american counterparts in their acceptance of their third-sex status? The latinas actually seem to thrive on their uniqueness and I am aware of a significantly smaller percentage of them wanting to do the full transition (chop) to female, than the posts here suggest of the asians. Also they are (in my experience) quite enthusiastic about their genitalia being involved in any and all activities. Do asians really need the macho man cliche to make them feel more female because they are unhappy with themselves? Is actually sucking their cocks a hatefull experience to them, whether they have an orgasm or not?
Also do they much prefer asian men (possibly fulfilling the asian boyfriend ideal more than a farang)? I mean, I understand that in their early teens or before, when their sexuality becomes more of a driving force they dream of thai boyfriends, but is that ideal so central to their personalities that western men are difficult to accept? Again in contrast to latinas (the only non-caucasian group I have first-hand experience of) who have seemed to be quite attracted to the slightly different.
Anyway, I'll stop rambling, I would love to hear what you veterans think about this. Is this the way it is? All nonsense? Have I misunderstood the posts?
First a bit of background, as I am very new around here:
I'm 35, consider myself to be bisexual (just to pre-empt the whole gay - not gay discussion) and have been desiring ladyboys since my teens. From my late 20's onwards I have been indulging with increasing enthusiasm
Mostly my experiences have been with latin american she-males and some caucasian ones. I have always loved asian women (have had a lot of asian girlfriends), and the Holy Grail has always been an asian ladyboy. Well maybe a lot more than one, but you know what I mean... I have only ever had an overnight stay in BKK and my entire experience of LOS and ladyboys is based on that. Not exactly an amazing track record!
Also, sexually, it is paramount for me that my partner receives as much pleasure as possible. There is nothing more stimulating than making them lose control. Just the way I am wired I suppose, the idea of just sticking it in and slaming away for an hour just doesnt do it for me. At all! (unless actually slamming is what floats their boat, then call me jackhammer
)I have never had a problem reconciling this preference with the P4P situation, somehow (aside from the usual percentage of dud encounters), I have felt (whether accurately or because it was sold to me successfully is unimportant) that my partners did actually get some pleasure out of the whole thing. Also, I am not yet aware of any way to fake an orgasm accompanied by a cum-fountain
Now to my question:
Reading through the forum, I have come across quite a few posts saying that ladyboys don't actually enjoy being sucked, played with, or topping even when they are technically able to. They may come, but they resent the experience? Also some of the posters who manage to have slightly more human relationships with the girls seem to be asian themselves (I'm thinking of FF, D_P, etc). Obviously a lot is down to personality, it's just a pattern that seems to be emerging.
How accurate is that? I mean are ladyboys so different from their latin-american counterparts in their acceptance of their third-sex status? The latinas actually seem to thrive on their uniqueness and I am aware of a significantly smaller percentage of them wanting to do the full transition (chop) to female, than the posts here suggest of the asians. Also they are (in my experience) quite enthusiastic about their genitalia being involved in any and all activities. Do asians really need the macho man cliche to make them feel more female because they are unhappy with themselves? Is actually sucking their cocks a hatefull experience to them, whether they have an orgasm or not?
Also do they much prefer asian men (possibly fulfilling the asian boyfriend ideal more than a farang)? I mean, I understand that in their early teens or before, when their sexuality becomes more of a driving force they dream of thai boyfriends, but is that ideal so central to their personalities that western men are difficult to accept? Again in contrast to latinas (the only non-caucasian group I have first-hand experience of) who have seemed to be quite attracted to the slightly different.
Anyway, I'll stop rambling, I would love to hear what you veterans think about this. Is this the way it is? All nonsense? Have I misunderstood the posts?
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