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    I still remember the thrill of the first ladyboy tongue sliding up my arse, the gentle gasping of air at sexual stimulations and sensations the height of which I had never experienced or dreamed of before, the light tongue flicks across the nipples and sheer drama and intrigue of having, what to all outward appearances is a woman€™s tits swinging in my face, as she rammed her hard cock deep into my arse.
    The thrill and sheer wanton lust as this feminine beast driven by a deep masculine animal instinct satiated her lust with my body.
    The sheer tightness of the ladyboys arses I entered and the soft femininity which, to me seemed more expressed than women€™s drew me on and on. The intoxicating perfume and extravagant styles lured me into their twilight existence.
    Didn€™t matter how endowed they were I was prepared to accommodate all comers. The dizzying mix of latent femininity with animal lust compelled me on toward more and more.
    Finding myself in situations and places (some dangerous) that reeked of extreme sleaze did nothing but drive the lust deeper and stronger.

    Oral sex was amazing, and at last I had encountered sexual partners who were expressive, driven by lust, not deterred by societal norms or distinctions.

    My own reputation and standing in society was not enough to keep me home at night and I would prowl restlessly nightly until my passions were spent.

    Now, thirty years on I have come to a watershed.

    I find ladyboys woefully wanting, not as sensitive to my needs as women, arses either too loose, if lubricated or woefully tight to the point of bruising. Ladyboys I find many are just waiting out their time till its over unless of course they are one of the rare exceptions or young.

    Getting fucked up the arse feels like someone is trying to destroy my liver and internal organs with a broom stick, the sensations that once inspired me are gone.

    I don€™t even like fucking them up the arse, I don€™t see stimulation in their eyes, I see a kind of animal pleasure which runs a fine line between pumping adrenalin and pain.

    Blowjobs, still good but they don€™t do it for me like before.

    Rimming seems like someone is cleaning my arse with a damp dishcloth.

    Ladyboys have bad breath, bad habits and the angels are few and far between.

    I almost feel revulsion if one slides her cock into my mouth.

    Above all they don€™t respond as well as woman.

    Maybe, I am fortunate with the women I meet I don€™t know. I do know, I love the way you can keep a woman at sexual peaks for so much longer over and over, on and on. Pussys feel like they are sent from heaven, so naturally lubricated and responsive for so much longer. Sensitive to every touch and much more sensitive to my needs than they used to be when I was younger.

    Will I recover from this trough I have sunk into, who knows?

  • #2
    What a fascinating post...

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    • #3
      Lay off for a while (6 months?) and then see if the old feelings return

      Similar sort of thing with guys whose tastes change from OTT ladyboys to femboys.

      Think a long period away will increase your desires.

      Just a fact that after 30 years your tastes are changing.
      seriously pig headed,arrogant,double standard smart ass poster!

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      • #4
        (trobriand @ Jan. 30 2009,14:43) Will I recover from this trough I have sunk into, who knows?
        I'm sure you're not the first to suffer from the dreaded Ungay Syndrome...

        Perhaps some therapy or medication will correct your problem...
        "It's not Gay if you beat them up afterwards."  --- Anon

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        • #5
          (kahuna @ Jan. 30 2009,17:27)
          (trobriand @ Jan. 30 2009,14:43) Will I recover from this trough I have sunk into, who knows?
          I'm sure you're not the first to suffer from the dreaded Ungay Syndrome...

          Perhaps some therapy or medication will correct your problem...
          A sojourn to Brazil perhaps. Maybe that will put the edge back into it !

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          • #6
            electrodes!
            No honey, no money!!

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            • #7
              That's an interesting post!

              I'm 58 and start being attacted (and try at the same time ..I don't like just dream I love do what I feel doing !) by ladyboy at 55 , so all my life was with women from all around the world because of my job.

              I had exacly the same feeling towards women ! start feeling bored, repetive in sex and loosing interest in a long relationship based on habits !

              Now I got a stable relatioship with woman in Europe and few very good friendship with ladyboys in Asia and feel 10 yrs younger.

              I have to say that between the 2 situation above I still love "butterflying " a little with girls and ladyboys in my trips.

              Still don't feel the need to settle down, got two grown up sons that I like to visit often and , just try to avoid 18yro girls or ladyboys that make me bored ( and probably I'm boring for them) and rarely do ST.

              Nice to hear all different experience

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              • #8
                Ok, as in very many previous posts would be interesting to know if trobriand, in his wonderful post, makes references to LBs who are in the business of selling sex, or from other ways of life.

                In case of sex workers, I have no illusion whatsoever about the excitement the workers are putting in their job. Would an assembly line worker be so much more enthusiastic after his 999th bolt than a LB after her 9th fuck of the day? Likely same same..as they say in LOS. So, to me any good sex encounter with a worken one is more occasional than anything else

                When having met crossdressers and transexuals with normal jobs and no commercial transactions were involved at all, I can't complain about the degree of excitement that was mutually involved. Of course, nothing like winning the Gold medal of sex but were mostly still steamy and exciting meeting which I do not regret at all.

                With women in general I have less satisfaction and attraction for the mere sex part alone, but have to say that often I have the wellness feeling of being with a genetic woman just not there for teh sex part, although I've had nice sentimental moments with the third sex as well.

                Of course you will feel the manliness at times! Hairy calves, pubes here and there, an unwanted hairy chin, a not-so-strangely strong smell..or a bad breath as trobriand wrote. But can live with that, and if you've been living in Asia, bad breath from women can be a lethal affair too

                A perfect recipe? Sure..I wish all those pretty ladies around would have a dick to play with, and would be a bit less a pain in the ass..Ok..for some of you a bit more
                Do only what you think it's good for you, and not what others think should be good for you!

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                • #9
                  (kahuna @ Jan. 30 2009,10:27) ...

                  Perhaps some therapy or medication will correct your problem...
                  Bacardi does the trick for me

                  So does JD

                  and Tequila

                  and Appleton Estate rum

                  Can't say I've tried therapy - probably too pissed
                  You, you and you hold fire - everyone else come with me - attributed to US Marine Recruiting Sargent WW2.

                  You, you and you cum on me - everyone else hold fire - attributed to Porn Actor/Director Alexandra in 1992

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                  • #10
                    It is not a mid-life crisis, it is more like shifting sands or moving on from behaviour that has become repetitive and tired.  As much as the electricity of relations with shemales may sustain one's libido there does come a time when one becomes jaded then annoyed at certain aspects of the scene.  For me it is the drama and the relentless greed of many shemales, the screaming Mimi syndrome and the "money mote" bird calls.  Not to say there are not gems shining amid the refuse but one cannot live on youth alone.  There is no forum dedicated to the merit and allure of aging ladyboys.

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                    • #11
                      Try younger lbs.
                      "I can see it in the eyes.....they get hollow and soulless a year or 2 after the Op .... I coined the term ''shark eyes'' to describe that look"

                      Jaidee 2009


                      The other white meat

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                      • #12
                        I would suggest that you first look in the mirror. If you don't like what you see then that may be one reason for your seeming lack of energy. Take care of that body...vitamins...especially B vitamins...exercise...it's not too late to change. I did, at age 50. I like the way I look now and so do my ladyboy friends.

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                        • #13
                          I have the same feelings at time, but I do look at the lady in my life as a companion and the ladyboy as a plaything and a companion too, but I don't get into the sex like I used too, but I have been beaten up by various accidents that between the mdicines I take and the consistant pain I have, I am limited to what kind of reaction I do get. I do need to get some kind of medicine to get my sexual interest back up. Maybe I need some hormones or something to get my sexual prowlness back up to where it should be. I just don't have the full interest that I used too. I get thinking "I don't care if I get it either way" but I love spending time with the women in my life. Has anyone here had a similar issue, you seem to have lost the urge at times? WHat can be taken to get things back "UP" to par. Either way, I have never lost interest in spending times with the ladies of this great city and I would NEVER be able to have just one in my life.

                          Nhscotsman

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                          • #14
                            i wouldnt spend too much time anal ,ising this one, if pounding someones butt ,is ,or is not your thing or tasting pussy is heaven scent or if your just glad to be gay like kahuna is, then just go with it, lifes for living.

                            just one point tho why are you veiwing this forum?
                            robbo

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                            • #15
                              (Looker @ Jan. 30 2009,19:44) Ok, as in very many previous posts would be interesting to know if trobriand, in his wonderful post, makes references to LBs who are in the business of selling sex, or from other ways of life.
                              Hi Looker and others

                              The feeling is the same across both spectrums, the enthusiastic amateurs and the professionals. I am sure there sexual antics are just the same as before, its just me.

                              The closer relationships tend to be with amateurs, and the only regrets I have about not wanting to lust after them, is that as people, some of the ladyboys are a amazing people and have been great friends, and will always be great friends if this strange condition continues.

                              I bumped into the lovely "M" or "Em" from the cabaret the other day and that stirred some deep emotions

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