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**Guest** · 08-28-2003, 09:46 AM

Allways a good topic to bring up Donnnnny,,Youve probably heard the old saying,,,BUT SHE'S A GOOD GIRL!!
When a guy falls for a woman,,,no matter what race,theres no changing his mind,,whatever you say to him.
Eventually we all learn from experience,,,well some do,,,and experience means $$$..
For me its a love hate thing,,I love to fuck-em, but I hate to pay-em..

Bali-ken

**Guest** · 08-28-2003, 01:00 PM

All you have to do is read Private Dancer, it is available to read free of charge on the internet at: http://www.stephenleather.com/unpub.html

I hasten to add that I am not the author, it is a worth a read though

**Guest** · 08-29-2003, 02:59 AM

Donnnny...........i have been preaching this for years to anyone that will listen up here, but i also must walk a fine line between helping the members and hurting my friends who pose for the site, so I would never really TELL anyone not to send money, that is up to them. But I try and tell people to read between the lines up here and the bottom line is that if people are actually thinking that a girl is staying home in her apartment and waiting for 'tom from florida' to come back and rescue from her boredom, they are sadly mistaken.

2 examples here, and of course no names.....

Model X is now a post-op in Kings Corner, after working for years in Kings 3 and having her opertaion. she was one of the cover girls here about a year ago and very pretty, and a good friend. I always stop into Kings Corner when i am in Patpong to see some old friends and say Hi, and she always comes right over and we chat over a beer or 2. Last time she was telling me that she had some guy in the states who was sending her 1500 [US!!] every month! 60,000 baht! she was laughing about it and giving me a high 5, and i said 'does he know you are here?' and she says 'no, he wants me to stay home but i come to work anyway'. this really pissed me off; she can live like a queen on 60,000 B in a country where most people make about 1/10th that per month, but she still feels the need to make MORE at Kings Corner. "Enough" does not exist in the vocabulary of Thai hookers, believe me; there can always be more to be made.

Another model worls in KC3; I asked her to do a repeat shoot and she accepted and we started talking. she was telling me that some guys from Europe was sending her 20,000 Baht every month and when i said that was a very nice amount, she kind of shook her hand as if to say it was just "OK'. talk about ungrateful; i never took out her fone number again for a re-shoot because i don't like greedy, unappreciative people. sure, she may not be able to live off the 20,000 because many of these people have high-spending lifestyle's now, but she could at least be happy and thankful that some schmuck is sending her almost 500 dollars of his hard-earned money every month.

My attitude on this is simple; if they ever ask or expect money from me while I am away from Thailand, they are dreaming. I have a girlfriend there and we are very close, but before i left there in June I sat her down and told her not to expect a dime from me; I am not a cheap charlie, but i don't feel as though it is my place to be supporting other adults. I have to work for a living, so why shouldn't they? and I already support 2 very important people in my life with a LOT of money every month; why should i support an adult also? No one is sending ME money for doing nothing, so why should i do it? And the people who think that sending money will keep the girl home and waiting for her prince in shining armor to come back from wisconsin and sweep her off her feet, read the 2 examples above; note that both girls were still working in bars, waiting to be picked up, even though they were getting cash from home.

I will never send money to anyone, especially if they ask me. my girlfriend understands that and she has never asked me once for even a baht; I give her whatever i feel is enough to help her live well while i am there, and I treat her well. while i am away, sorry, you are on your own. but because she never asks me for a dime, sometimes i may offer some help on my own; someone in bangkok owed me 8000 baht and I told them 'give it to her'; someone else over there bought a 1-year membership and owed me 4200 baht and i said 'give it to her', she can use it more. she was thankful and happy, and it made me feel good to give her some extra dough, but the moment she asks, the 'just say no' policy will come in handy.

remember........when you are 10,000 miles away from your sweetie you have no idea what she is up to, no matter WHAT she may be telling you. remember the words of the immortal blue ballz; guys with more baht than brains end up losing their money and their heart at the same time. don't be one of those guys.

Jon

**Guest** · 08-29-2003, 06:25 AM

well said jon i agree with all you say. thanks for the responce.
they like you better if you dont throw money at em
donnnnny

**Guest** · 08-29-2003, 10:20 AM

Good response Jon, I feel the same too but would still recommend anyone who is still not sure on this to read Stephen Leathers book.

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