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[Guest]

Fuckin' A! Great topic Stogie,

I have never been to LOS, nor have I been with a LB. But I have been seriously contemplating it.
So many shared their stories (or cover stories), it was great. I have definitely been thinking about planning a whole tour of SE Asia, even if my only desired destination is LOS.
My personal life is such that I don't even go to Las Vegas (I live in the US) without meeting friends. This is out of fear that people think that I am going there to go with prostitutes. I'd love to say that I don't care what people think, but who really doesn't?
Whatever. I don't have anything to contribute that is "on topic" so I just want to thank everyone who shared.
-Charlie

[Guest]

Never told my folks, what would have been the point. Mates, two of the closest friends i had both gave me the elbow, one because he got a great job in bkk and married a girl from a bank, would not do to be seen with a perv like me now would it, even though he's done more than his share, and still does each friday, "hi love im too drunk to drive so ill stay in town tonight" oh did i forget to mention im with a gg. And the second of these guys brings a dvd player half way round the world to watch porno in his room all day, but wont drink with me as im queer. Ive know the firts guy since i was 15 and the second guy since i was 5, i brought both to Thailand in the early eighties. Funny old life aint it

[donnnnnny]

fuck em jungle land no loss they are wankers. we still love ya mate

[Guest]

Well I must live in one of the worst places in the world when the subject of SEX comes up. Everything here and I mean everything is revolved around the Church whether Catholic or Protestant! Outside of marriage sex is forbidden!! I don`t even mention it to anyone that i`m off to Thailand......the guys I know here are so fucking jealous that they cannot go either because they cannot afford it or their wifes don`t allow them. If I ever mentioned that I loved ladyboys I would be slagged as a " fruit " or" Homo". According to the narrow minded fuckers/morons ( not mormons ) they are just men .. not the third sex that we all love on this site. Yet when I show photo`s of these ladyboys in the dresses and skirts telling them that the are girls ...their eyes are bulging out of their heads with lust!
I`m a 53 yr old retired Police officer ex school teacher who is happily married to a very good looking woman (size 8 in a dress and 34DD`s 12 yrs) my junior with 3 grown up kids yet for the last 12 yrs I have headed off to Thailand for 6 weeks to see my lovely ladyboys. Because ladyboys started off life as men they know exactly what a man wants and I just love love love them all! I`m such a greedy character that I need at least 2 in bed with me every night. ( I have so many photo`s of me in bed with them over the yrs if only I knew how to put them on here from my disc? ).
No really cares what other people think about u and ladyboys? None of their damm business and as other people have said life is short enough so enjoy it.
I have had bad experiences with aggressive ladyboys but I have also met so of the sweetest loveliest people in the world amongst them. Last oct I took Angee who now works in Obsessions to Cambodia with me. whilst there I got a fever and was really sick.......she never left the room looking after me and washing me all over and cleaning me. Very few people would do this for anyone!!
In conclusion I don`t care what people think of me and ladyboys......I enjoy myself and I treat them right and that`s all that matters in my book.

[Guest]

I forgot to mention I live in Northern Ireland!

[Guest]

Hmmm... I have to say this is an interesting topic on an interesting forum! I'm new to here but already I know I like this and of course I already knew I like LBs, and even though I can claim to know a fair deal about the gender issues etc. I have to admit I was introduced to a new term - femboys! All good, live and learn, and I like them as much as I do ladyboys.. Even though I'm still a virgin to them!

But now to the core issue.. Sorry if this becomes a long essay about my background to the thing...!! A problem for me has been that I live in a very uptight country where even a longer hair than military style is considered gay and if being a goodlooking boy that's for certain. Urgh, what stupidity... I don't care about gays/men, and as our country is also relatively small there is no LBs or TS-girls here, only horrible old tvs or CDs and frankly I don't dig it here.. And thus I haven't experienced a thing yet as it is quite impossible around here.    (..I know few Asian girls here who have told me something about Thailand, but of course they too have their agendas against LBs, and what I've heard is quite stereotypical, and I think I've learned more from the net than from them).  

Anyway, I have known for years what I like and what I crave but I really haven't had the momentum of going and doing anything about it yet. Maybe it's because I love pretty & beautiful girls so I'm not having it bad in my country, I am doing ok with GGs and I haven't felt the urge so bad.. Or not, I don't know.. Eversince I discovered the ts-girls from some sex movie, (I think it was a Brazilian flick and I bought it because of the beautiful girls) I got very aroused and very interested in, that was a revealing experience for me. Now, I always considered myself hetero and I still do, but there is something about the girls with something extra that gets me on far better than a GG would ever! So after the initial touch I've taken time and effort to get to know more about the whole culture behind the films, and I'd like to know more about the girls behind the pics too. This seeems a fine plateau for that also.

Hmm.. Of course my interest towards LBs rises from a sexual desire but for me this has never been just  a sexual thing or a fetish, a thing to just try and that's it! No, I want to know more and I want to live it.. I'm genuinly considering even marrying a ts-girl/ladyboy if I'd ever meet one who would match, (but that's a long way away). And I think she had to be a convincing lady and all that, I believe my family or friends wouldn't actually understand at all what it's all about unless she went as a beautiful girl. So I'd prefer her to pass as a GG in every day life if that'd ever happened. (Whole different thing is what is the case privately, but if living in here it's better for everybody to pass as a normal couple)

Anyway.. I'm not ashamed at all because of my interest in ladyboys and ts-girls, it's just that I'm lacking an understanding enviroment to whom confess about it really.. I know many secretly desire ladyboys and (even boys, although being a gay is much more accepted when being a stereotypical one and it's fairly easy for lesbians) but, the collective cultural pressure makes my attraction to ladyboys and ts-girls an uneasy thing to talk about in my country. And the lack of knowledge, that's another thing which molds the general attitudes. ->  

All in all, I'm confident to confess my secret desires to someone who really understands, not just plays understanding. I know my current girlfriend knows something about my interest because she's been snooping around my comp but she doesn't understand that, her being a Catholic girl and all, and I've had to lie about the thing to her and deny that there is something more into it. Well, we're separating now so it doesn't even matter so much, but she's probably the only one who even has a hint about that. (And one thing popped to my mind to the end - hehe... I'd also love to have a girlfrend who would like to have a ladyboy with me!) But I prefer having just the gorgeous ladyboy too!  

[Stewart]

but I have also met so of the sweetest loveliest people in the world amongst them. Last oct I took Angee who now works in Obsessions to Cambodia with me. whilst there I got a fever and was really sick.......she never left the room looking after me and washing me all over and cleaning me. Very few people would do this for anyone!!

You mean you had promised to pay her at the END of the trip?

[Guest]

no one in my family knows about what i do overthere. I'm 22, so i think most of my friends are all at the age where they'd just make fun of me to no end. in other words. its a locked up secret!
The only thing my pals back here know about my travels is the time i fucked my friend in japans girlfriend. hahaha.

[Rimmer]

I am too shit scarred to tell my family.

[Dieter]

No prob........Me Don Don Dieter

[PigDogg]

Families don't need details.

Do they need to know if you had vaginal sex, oral sex, or anal sex with your girlfriend? Would you please pass the butter Sis?

As for the Corleones, Fredo would be OK with your secret but Sonny would kick the crap out of you.

[Dieter]

Sonny....who was that?....Nope, me the Boss of my clan...or so..My friends know me as a crazy guy and a guy who do things nobody do before.....drive a Ferrari as i am 20. as I am 30 I spend a night with a German movie star, 40 do a party in School Class No.2, with 44 married a ladyboy, with 50.........who knows....I am open for all.....

Dieter....crazy but kind and lovely

[perth_couple]

Just about all of our friends know we are freaks... Those who want to know ask, those who dont want to know... well... dont ask...

As for family, we chat to thai gurl/girl friends online while my mum is over visiting - not sure if she has an issue, dont really care

Mrs PC's dad just thinks we're mad and always have been..

He is very glad we found each other but isnt quite sure why

Can definately understand others need to keep up appearances, and reluctance to share however....

PC