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[nigel69]

Only my wife knows about my liking for ladyboys, as she used to work in a brothel down here in Melbourne, which had everything on the menu, women,ladyboys and gays for the gay male clients.She was the most beautiful Thai woman I had ever seen ,however before I found her I visited RACHEL, a petite blonde Madonna-esque she male ,who gave a full on service.As they worked at the same establishment ,RACHEL was most upset when my wife"stole" her customer. Therefore my wife "knows" of my unquenchable desires and says that "she doesn't ask any questions, because she doesn't want to know." Nobody else in my family or circle of friends knows and that is the way to keep it.Why confuse their lives with your desires.As I have clearly stated ,to both my wife and Thai ladyboy ( second wife) down here, I am bi-sexual ( only for femme ladyboys and women) therefore please accept that I will always feel the need to have sex with each of the gender types I am attracted to.

Just on another thread did I see that Asian-Ts was interested in putting some Thai ladyboy Porno together.Perhaps those involved are looking for a "Producer" ( the guy who comes up with the money)If so please let me know who you are and any experience you have in film or camera work, etc. My expertise is music and dvd and I know there is a market for it.

[Guest]

I solved all those prying questions by moving to Korea and now I'm 5 hours away and can fly down to LOS anytime I want practically for free. Of course, Korea sucks but thats another story all together.

[dummy_plug]

Neither my family or friends know that I've ever been to Thailand or that I have passionate sex with ladyboys. If I were to say I was going to Thailand, especially by myself, it would almost certainly conjure up ideas of sex tourim - which would actually be just about spot on. Although I can criticize them for jumping to conclusions so easily, I can't say much if they're right! As for the ladyboy business, I come from a fairly religious background and they would equate fucking around - first of, immoral, but more importantly homosexual. I'd say a lot of my friends, even the atheist ones, would see fucking a ladyboy as being just about gay and I don't have the most tolerant of friends. So for now its my little secret and I plan to keep it that way.

Oh...actually forgot. One person did find out. My ex-fiancee.

[brocklanders]

Wow, now that's a story...tell us more DP. One day you are ready to get married(assuming a conservative Asian girl) and the next minute you are in Thailand exploring ladyboys and the next minute she finds out? Wow? Tell us more.

[Bit Beefy]

Oh...actually forgot. One person did find out. My ex-fiancee.

About the Ladyboys or about u goin to Thailand?  

[katoeylover]

At lunch today with older sister, her family, mother and mother's friend...

Mother says to me
"I hear you are going on holiday again"

"yes, at the end of august"

"Where?"

"I am going to Thailand again"

"Why? You just got back didn't you"

"No that was 2 1/2months ago"
"But why do you want to go again"

I thought a swift end to the conversation was in order:
"i am 42 years old - i dont have to explain my actions!!!"

BTW _ I am going for 2 weeks of ladyboy shagging - are you ok with that?

[Bit Beefy]

But why do you want to go again

I have the same answer for that every time some1 asks

[donnnnnny]

Im open with all my friends back here in australia I tell em im a sex tourist, i get all the usualll miss enformed crap about aids etc as they puff away on there cigarettes. they all know i go for sex but none know i go for ladyboys.
My favorite thing is to show selected photos of me in action with ladyboys, and watch the reaction of my mates who all say "wow so hot what a babe im going to thailand" etc.last sunday i showed em some pics of pop and they were all going on about her fantastic tits and what abae she was.
I really believe that most straight men will fuck a sexy looking shemale and not worry about it.If you ask em in public they will say "no way" but reality is they will fuck them but dont want anyone to know.
so i just dont worry about tellig anyone.
having said that i feel the day will come when i tell em all , and leave em to gossip
cheers donnnnny

[Guest]

My LB life is a secret, as it must be for now. No one would understand. I can only make them understand when they visit Thailand and meet people vs just thinking in their head stereotypical images.

My friends think I'm a lady sex-maniac and are very jealous. They just got the lady part wrong.

[Guest]

What a really interesting thread this is.

For myself most of my trips to SE Asia are on business so that is not a problem with the home crowd. As I have said on a few other threads, I am aquainted with several UK based LBs who are not "working" other than at a normal day job, and lets be honest quite a few who are sex workers.

For myself I have - since starting on this new journey about five years ago - followed a simple policy of freely admitting that I am aquainted with transexual people. I am also aquainted with Straight, Gay and what I suppose you would call non-combatants.

I regard what I get up to in private as being between me and the other party and nobody else's business. Like Donnnnnny I have shown people dressed pictures of some of my LB contacts and had to step back to avoid the drool!

I suppose what I'm saying is that life is too short worry about judgemental prats to quote a Peruvian saying "Be safe, Be happy, Hurt no one"

Hell's teeth I didn't know I could get that serious - perhaps its the effect of working in Shanklin for a week! (check with Stogie for details on this)

Cheers

[Bit Beefy]

having said that i feel the day will come when i tell em all , and leave em to gossip

Me? NEVER

[dhz]

My best friends knowing about this and all of them had told me that they accept and be tolerant about what I like. Or my ex-gf (which is the mother of my son ) and her new bf did know and had met me with a lb when they were on the same time like me for holiday in LOS.
Why should I have a problem about the other have a problem of this ? It is my decision and it is my life and  every life is  short enough for to wait until all like to accept my way of life.  Such a prefer of to like and love lbs is not forbidden  and unnormal - if someone like than do it and don`t think about the other meaning.
Always before I go to LOS - or after be back my friends, or in my office make jokes about my LOS trips. It is in fun kind, but looks in the background with a lilttle touch of jealous. Or it can be that  they are envious about I am strong enough for to do this.

[Guest]

Years ago when i first starting going people and my mom asked me why I keep on going back to LOS.

Answer: "because I can." Nuff said!

[Bit Beefy]

(BLUEBALLZ @ Jul. 19 2006,12:27) Years ago when i first starting going people and my mom asked me why I keep on going back to LOS.

Answer: "because I can."  Nuff said!

[post-op lover]

Many of my friends equate Thailand = post-op LBs. Or at least LOS = transvestites.

Now, here's a conundrum I had sometime ago: a Thai post-op friend actually suggested that I could stay with her family in Thailand, should I ever visit - even if I visit w/o her. I thought "holy crap, does she know that I would be shagging post-ops left and right? Her family would definitely be uncomfortable." Then, I thought that maybe she was suggesting it as a way of keeping a leash on me. I never got to the bottom of it, because I never got to LOS.