BM code of conduct

[Torurot]

Up to the girl if she's working. If the "boyfriend" is paying her then not likely. Friends, share and share alike.

[wembleyguy]

(ozzie @ Dec. 20 2007,06:03) Many BM's on here know my take on this. Basically if she is still working in the bar then she is fair game.

I guess the only time I would not bar fine someone elses preferred would be if we walked into the bar together and I knew he wanted her. However if I was there alone then all bets are off.

Im with you Ozzie  

[stogie bear]

I'm entirely in Ozzie's corner on this.

If you're feelings are hurt or you feel betrayed by a prostitute then you really need to reassess the value of your friendship with both th e girl and the chaps that you call friends.

Are we just supposed to guess whether or not you are gonna be upset if your favorite hooker gets a pounding from someone you know? What about if you are 'off her' that week?

Time and time again I see chaps drifting in and out of love with hookers and it always turns sour because they can't get used to them having sex with other people. Then they wonder why the girl is trying to distance her self from him.

It's really rather pathetic that anyone can be possessive over a hooker. If you are then grow up and let her do her job.

By the way - she is only your 'girlfriend' if you actually live full time with her. If you honestly think that your fave fuck is your 'girlfriend' then you are at best a deluded fool and at worst you need therapy.

But after having said all that I do know some deluded fools and people who would be upset if I shagged their favorite hooker so there are a couple of girls that I would not barfine just to avoid problems.

[Stewart]

But after having said all that I do know some deluded fools and people who would be upset if I shagged their favorite hooker so there are a couple of girls that I would not barfine just to avoid problems.

You woos

Can you send their names and numbers to me and Ozzie please so we can shag them and upset some people?

Errrrrr, send the numbers to me first now that I think about it......

[Stewart]

We all have a soft spot for particular lbs.

...you have a regular business transaction, that's all

[stogie bear]

Entirely correct...

You provide cash and the more you dish out the better the sex will be (hopefully)and the girl in time may actually enjoy your company.

But as soon as you are out of sight - you are out of mind.

But even the most generous punters risk having their goodwill thrown back at them. Often the sex will become 'routine' after the second or third visit because the punter isn't insisting on getting his moneys' worth.

But that's by the by...

If you are avoiding hookers because it might affect your friendship with a mate then that's fair enough... I do it. It's just easier to see it their way than to risk having a set-to with a chum over a night of sex.

Eventually they'll catch on that the girl doesn't give a flying fuck about them and you can eventually get your night of fun.

[harley quinn]

I find my self in the cynical old sods corner here (probably because I'm a cynical old sod).

These girls work in bars for the money, for sure it can be an enjoyable experience that goes beyond sex for both but at the end of it say thanks, kiss her goodbye get on your plane and go. By the time you hit 35000 feet she will be blowing a Japanese businessman for 5000 baht. And good luck to her

Read the trip reports forum - BMs pass around the names of girls all the time. Good for them as you get a true (ish) report of what the girls are like and the girls get a supply of clued up and generally civilised punters. Everyone wins.

There is an outside chance that you will meet the reincarnation of a goddess who owns a bar but in that case your name is Mardhi and you already know that you are the exception to the rule you lucky lucky ...

[Naang Faa]

You are right it's just a transaction,paying more however does not mean better sex
but it will buy you preference over another customer.
These girls can switch off emotions like a light,so why get hung up about YOUR girl
going with your friend? I know there should be respect for one another but in the P4P
scene it's every man/ladyboy for them self..
You could always barfine her together and have party!
Boys with their katoeys..just play together,they don't belong to you,you don't belong
to them.
Naang Faa
x

[COIN FLIP]

they don't belong to you, you don't belong to them...

Wise words...

[harley quinn]

Damn its my nemesis from the football forum!!!!!!!!

Happy Christmas mate onwards and downwards into the last part of the season

[COIN FLIP]

I WILL Lose bigger than YOU!

[razrman]

This business of a gentleman's agreement is something some of my friends and I generally abide with. If we as a group go hunting, generally if one of us starts chatting up a ladyboy or girl the others would go for somebody else. And if we subsequently went alone and saw a buddy's "choice" she would not be first on the list. Strange though it may sound to some and as somebody rightly said "They don't belong to us nor us to them" this is a common though not universal practice amongst locals in Singapore.

[Guest]

guys I know would shag your wife never mind someone in a whore house by any other name

[TTChang]

As one who enjoys the GFE (and sometimes gets carried away in this fantasy world) I can get deluded.  So it is 'just possible' that I am one of SB's deluded friends  

Rationally, everything Ozzie, Stewart, wembleyguy etc say makes complete sense to me.   And actually the post Thaibound made also.

But as far as my own actions are concerned, I would  hesitate (and have avoided) barfining certain LBs where I know they are a particular 'favourite' (whatever definition you might give to that) of someone I know well from this forum. That's just the way I am - I havent a clue why - misguided loyalty?    I do have respect for other BMs who do the same for me.

Anyway, Kahuna's post on this thread was very brief ... c'mon my friend  ...   more please     And from Mr Socrates  (with these two you can't help but shag their numerous favourites, can you?)

PS.  There is no LB I have any current 'claim' on Daveduke, so 'up to you' is the phrase.   Now where did you say your 'favourite' is living now ?  

[simon_125]

Glad to hear you don't currently have a claim on any lb at the moment. You were one of the guys I was thinking about when i made the post.......... cos i wanna barfine AE!!
Hope that's ok buddy