Gay or not? Naaah... who gives a shit?

[Guest]

There was a thread some where here around, where the guys discussed if u are gay or not - cannot find it.

But one posting got my attention. The poster claimed that a relationship with a transsexual was outta the question bcuz this was all a sexual dream! And how would we as guys react "when she became a he" and presented the 5 oclock stubble!

THAT guy just DOESN'T get it!

George Clooney is a handsome man, but would I want to have a sexual thing with him? Leather and all? NOT really... not at all!

BUT do I love my transsexual non-ops, non-hormones transgender girlfriend, when she wakes up in the morning with bad breath, a boyish look and a bad attitude?

Of course I do - maybe that is when I love her and him the most. !!!

That is in many ways when she and he becomes most beautiful. That is when the need for sweet words are least important - and most inportant. That is when HE needs YOU to talk about the SHE... in HIM.

And believe me... that can be a VERY interesting talk!

To me there is nothing grander, than a ladyboy who realizes that her socalled masculinity is actually his femininity!

And don't worry gents... I stand alone with this point of view! Exept among my transsexual princesses...

Hank

[katoeylover]

Hi Hank,

Welcome to the forum.

The topic you are talking about is in the Academia forum.

[katoeylover]

[Guest]

I think he meant the "been fuct" thread wheree brocklanders drew up the guidelines for homosexuality/homophobia.
If anyone missed it here it is again:

Getting fucked up the ass by a man OR ladyboy= gay

Sucking cock of a man or a ladyboy= questionably gay but I say gay

Fucking a man= gay

Fucking a preop ladyboy with tits= not gay although there might be acts during the session that might be considered gay

Fucking a postop ladyboy= not gay

Fucking a femboy without tits or a drag queen= On the fence on this one


Words to live by. You all should print this and keep it handy.

[gizmo]

Who really care's!

[kahuna]

(rick @ May 08 2007,08:00) I think he meant the "been fuct" thread wheree brocklanders drew up the guidelines for homosexuality/homophobia.
If anyone missed it here it is again:

How could we possibly miss it Rick...You've regurtigated it a dozen times...

[smuttleydfs]

(gizmo @ May 07 2007,19:12) Who really care's!

The answer to this would obviously be

Brocky Boy

[fionasexyangel]

(hank @ May 08 2007,07:43) George Clooney is a handsome man, but would I want to have a sexual thing with him? Leather and all? NOT really... not at all!

, when she wakes up in the morning with bad breath, a boyish look and a bad attitude?

Of course I do - maybe that is when I love her and him the most. !!!

That is in many ways when she and he becomes most beautiful. That is when the need for sweet words are least important - and most inportant. That is when HE needs YOU to talk about the SHE... in HIM.

To me there is nothing grander, than a ladyboy who realizes that her socalled masculinity is actually his femininity!

And don't worry gents... I stand alone with this point of view! Exept among my transsexual princesses...

Hank

do you think george clooney is gay or no?
i read in wikipedia that he, and some of male celebrity is involved with Roberta Close, the brazilian transexual women who posed in Playboy Magazine...

and i agree with you hank.. no matter how..
transexual women, is a new specimen, blended between him and her...

may i say it's a superspecimen..

a man who enjoy his feminity
and a woman who had masculinity

just a thought....



american sweetheart...

fi

[newwriter]

I have tortured myself over and over about this and the truth is I am beginning to fall down on the side of Brocklanders. Clearly, sucking cocks is moving towards gay behaviour - as is receiving anal sex.

Blowing it off with "who cares" is easy but doesn't really challenge anybody or further the discussion - which has to be a legitimate part of any forum discussing LB sex.

Of course any sex that involves the male sexual organ and men is pushing the envelope towards gay behaviour - it is ridiculous to argue otherwise - but it does not make the person gay.

I personally love taking a LB cock in my mouth and arse but I don't want to have sex with a bloke. I DO go through mental anguish about my feelings (and admire anybody who operates in this sphere without the questions) but ultimately can live with myself and keep coming back for more.

Ultimately though, the question that remains unanswered is why can I not simply admit my feelings to my family and mates? Clearly because the behaviour is perverse and not acceptable in the heterosexual mainstream - which is where I want people to think I operate.

Fucking complex issue that is not enhanced in any way by people abusing those forum members who hold alternative views. Let's simply admit we are all weirdos in the view of most (more than 50%) of the world but that we are the lucky ones who know just how damn good sex with these beautiful creatures truly is.

I have a secret dream/nightmare that I get caught out in this behaviour and am forced to fess up. I feel bloody good about the possibilities this freedom would present - being out of the closet would make spending all my spare waking hours seeking out LB's a perfectly reasonable thing to do.

[kahuna]

(newwriter @ May 09 2007,01:52) Fucking complex issue that is not enhanced in any way by people abusing those forum members who hold alternative views.

Perhaps, but it does "enhance" all of our "fun" on the forum...

I my opinion, keeping secrets from yourself can lead to very dangerous results...and that's what I see many guys doing here...

If you can't come to grips with your own sexuality, however you elect to define it, outside of this forum and within yourself, then perhaps you should seek professional help...

[TTChang]

(kahuna @ May 09 2007,02:50) [Perhaps, but it does "enhance" all of our "fun" on the forum...
I my opinion, If you can't come to grips with your own sexuality, however you elect to define it, outside of this forum and within yourself, then perhaps you should seek professional help...

 Are you offering professional help. kahuna?   Not that I'm torturing myself, of course!

[kartika]

I am with Kahuna. The priority here is to be comfortable living inside your own head. If you are at peace with your own thoughts on the issue, (whether in or out of the closet so to speak) it is totally irrelavent what or how others think about it. If you are having problems trying to define the borders between one sexuality and another - just remember that there is only one person who can control your thoughts.

[kahuna]

(TTChang @ May 10 2007,04:54) Are you offering professional help. kahuna?  

Yes indeed...The Big Kahuna Ladyboy Counseling Center will be open for business on the 23rd...

Fortunately, the first few counseling sessions are already fully booked...

And no, you can't have her number TT...

[Guest]

I would say the priority is being comfortable in your own head AND respecting other views.

newwriter you say we shouldn't abuse members on the forum, and then call of us gay, perverse, and weirdos.

I do not consider myself perverse, a weirdo, nor gay. It seems you do think that of yourself as that's you're description of people who like LBs. That's fine, go ahead and think that of yourself, but don't associate that with the rest of us, and follow your own advice of not abusing other members on the forum.

[harley quinn]

I find this whole thread - and the similar ones I unearthed about the site - interesting insofar as I really had little problem when I "changed codes".

Having met my first LB and enjoyed her company before we got to the bedroom I found complying with her wish that I sucked her cock no big dea. Other than discovering that I rather enjoyed it and the effect it had on her.

o be honest that was the biggest surprise to me and as for self torture - there are better things to do IMHO.