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Must read for any first time Pattaya visitor... brilliant!
The women here in Pattaya, what do you make of them? I know you like to play around so you must have some thoughts on them.
Very simple, very simplistic. In Pattaya, money is first. Take it for what it is, not for what you want it to be and enjoy the moment. But let the moment go. I have a theory. Catch and release. Catch and release. You've gotta release. If you don't release, it is going to turn into a disaster. I don't collect phone numbers because that's emotional. Never collect phone numbers. I tell them I found you once, I will find you again. I never let them sleep with me overnight. They never stay in my bed. I have not slept with a woman for 3 years. It's too emotional. Those are the safeguards I put in place so I don't get into the game playing me. Once you start hugging them and embracing and sleeping overnight with them then the game is playing you.
I had girlfriends in the beginning and it did my head in. I knew when my girl went down to the beach guys were asking her for short time because that is the environment we live in. My girl would go to 7 Eleven and 10 guys would hit on her while she was out. Why? Because she's a bargirl and they know it. Ex-bargirl and bargirl? Same thing! You can take the girl out of the bar, but you can't take the bar out of the girl. It's always going to be that way. You can try but it is foolish. It's always going to be that way! Do this . That's how they see sleeping with a guy. It's so impersonal! They can do it in such a way they feel there is nothing wrong with it. They have detached themselves so far from emotion that it means nothing to them.
A Thai girl once told me a lie is not a lie if it is told in English. Only if it is spoken in Thai is it considered a lie. English means nothing to them and they see us as weak.
and it's nothing personal...
They want the best result for the least time and effort. They are not going with us to have multiple orgasms. That might beat a lot of guys' egos up but it's true. These girls are not going with anyone for multiple orgasms or sexual pleasure. They want the easiest possible result for the least possible effort. The best possible result for the least possible effort. And that's what it's really about.
An interesting interview indeed. I've seen this guy around Pattaya - and he obviously is quite successful in his loan shark business. Doubtful many dodge when he comes to collect!
As for the 300 Baht - most likely to be the beach road freelancers for short time. I don't think many would go for 300 Baht long time!
Well I guess it depends on whether you think Mr Shark is "handsum man". As he said himself, it takes a certain girl... I wonder if the LB ever chase him or he them? Sticks interview with Shark was one of the best (realistic) I have read in a while.
Yes but Pacman, you yourself told me not to quibble over 500 bhat. If I remember your wording correctly. You are not a Handsum 21 year old man. That hurt.
As your American and only get ten days holiday per year, with two of them taken up by getting there and back you need to balance the "value" of 500 Bhat different to Packers who gets a minimum four weeks holiday and a much shorter and cheaper flight time. Money has different values for different circumstances.
And if "not handsum man" hurt what about being thought a chump by your date for paying too much... Sometimes you just can't win
(TEXASMAC @ Jul. 08 2012,10:50) Yes but Pacman, you yourself told me not to quibble over 500 bhat. If I remember your wording correctly. You are not a Handsum 21 year old man. That hurt.
When you travel half way across the world to have as much fun as you can squeeze into your holiday, it seems silly to pass up the best looking girl in the bar for a small amount of money.
And if you do manage to talk her quote down, you can be sure her effort will be somewhat less than her best because she will resent you for your lack of generosity.
I am sorry if I hurt your feelings Tex, I doubt I was the first nor will I be the last. C'est la vie...
Despite the high cost of living, it continues to be popular.
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