Passing through Bangkok

[jimslim]

A good bowl of porridge with a spoonful of honey in the morning is the cure to all that ails ye , and the key to a healthy mind and body .

[sev7en]

(farangbah @ Sep. 19 2009,08:44) besides this thread being depressing as to my future

Same same here JD paints a very depressing future, but i´m sure it´s correct.

Can´t wait to choose a good book over a hot lb!

[JaiDee]

ya, that's why a lot of stogies friends don't like me posting up here anymore; it's not all wild times and caligula-type romps like back in the good ol' days!  talking about ladyboy scammers and liars and not being in the mood for sex most of the time isn't exactly what the majority of punters want to read on a sexually-charged pornographic message board,  but King brought it all up and I just added in my truthful 2 cents.

    fact is I have been in and out of Asia quite a bit the last 2 years and the number of ladyboys I have been with?  Zero.   Number of  Asian lady hookers?   2 or 3, all in Phnom Penh.    Cute Euro-backpackers?  2.   Not a great track record in 2 years to be sure, but amazing times at beach parties, waterfalls, swimming in tropical waters and playing tunes under a palm tree?  Too many to count and it beats the fuck out of anything I do around here.

  Hey, our interests change..... just adapt and go with the flow, if you don't feel like having sex don't force it, I know I don't. And you'll be surprised how many cool and interesting people you run into who are in Thailand and Cambodia for cool things OTHER than sex.

[JaiDee]

(sev7en @ Sep. 19 2009,21:41) depressing future, but i´m sure it´s correct.

Actually Se7en, it may be a totally different scenario for you!

Look more to guys like TheGame and TT Chang and Stogie, KL, Ernesto, Kahuna, etc ..... guys who have moved into their 40's and older and still get it on almost every fookin' night! Guys like myself may actually be an anomaly to the rule, who knows, we are all different.

[El_hefe]

Ahem..... (clears throat)...



Beans Taste Fine (Shel Silverstein)


Now a friend of mine, way back in Chicago

You know, he finally made his pile.

Well he got himself a mansion on Butler and Sheff

An' he was livin' in the latest style;

But I run into him, he was eatin' in a greasy spoon

While parkled in front was his big limousine.

I said, "Buddy, you've got so much money

How come youre in here, eatin beans?"

An' he said


After you've been havin' steak for a long time

Beans, beans taste fine.

An' after you've been drinkin' champagne and brandy

You gonna settle for wine.

He said "The world is funny, and people are strange

And man is a creature of constant change, and

After you've been havin' steak for a long time

Beans, beans taste fine."


Now, you know I ran into another friend of mine

In a rowdy old Clark Street Bar,

I said, "Friend, is it true what I heard about you?

I heard you married a beautiful 18-year old shapely movie star,

Yet here you sit, tryin' to make out with some barfly

Who's too old and ugly to be true."

He said, "Shelley, you're still a very young man

So sit down. I'll explain it all to you.

He said,


After you've been havin' steak for a long time

Beans, beans taste fine.

An' after you've been drinkin' champagne and Chivas Regal

You gonna settle for Thunderbird wine.

He said "The world is funny, and people are strange

And man is a creature of constant change, and

After you've been havin' steak for a long time

Beans, beans taste fine."

[johnnydiver]

Dear King of NANA:

A couple of quick pointed questions:

!. Are you on any meds for your heart like blood pressure and cholesteral?
2. When was the last time you took a testosterne test?

Heart meds can drive down the desire and if you body has reduced the production of testosterne that can have an effect as well. Androgel will boost the testostrone levels and that may be all that you need. Have a quick check with the doc. Long hours at work will always burn you out but don't take any chances, talk to the doc. Best wishes my friend and to quote a fellow board member, " always stay horny!"

[Tomcat]

I think Jaidee hit it on the head earlier.. "male menopause!"...
Once you are north of 45 this will kick in at some point... just Google it

[thegame925]

It's a phase you are going through.
Everyone goes through it at some time or another.
Do not worry about it.
Do not dwell upon it.
It will pass.

All I can tell you is, less than four weeks away from my 76th birthday, confined to the UK. with a minor heart problem, that if I was to dwell on anything (and I do not waste my time dwelling on "regrets" ), it would be that I did not seize every moment to enjoy the variety of fruit from the LB orchards of Thailand and elsewhere.

Time passes too fast, ones youth fades, grab what you can, when you can and enjoy every moment.

[strocube]

I can totally relate to King of Nana's post.
When I was back in the LOS for my first time in January, I found I was more than a bit put off by the scene in and around Nana. Still, that did not stop me from taking a different girl every night for the the three nights that I was there. I did change my plans though, and instead of going to Pattaya, like I had planned, I said "fuck that." I went diving, kayaking, and sightseeing in Phuket. Then I headed out to Chaing Mai, for some trekking and river rafting instead--it was a total blast!
On my way out, and for my last two nights I stayed with the same girl. It was a pretty amazing GFE.
So, in a total of three weeks I spent 5 nights mongering, three of those nights were with the same girl.

As for alcohol, for me, it kills boners, or if not, it makes it almost impossible to cum. So If I'm fucking, I ain't drinking anymore than two drinks, max.

As someone else mentioned here, libido is a strange thing. There are days when I'll spank it two or three times, and then three or four days will go by without much interest.

I suggest that you do not push yourself into anything you think you should want but don't. If you're not feeling it, do something else and don't worry about it.

Thailand is full of all kinds of fun things to see and do, and if you get horny sex is always available in its dizzying variety in the LOS.

Cheers

[JaiDee]

(thegame925 @ Sep. 20 2009,22:56) All I can tell you is, less than four weeks away from my 76th birthday

grab what you can, when you can and enjoy every moment.

good for you, Game

It was a pleasure meeting you in the UK last year and my biggest regret is that I couldn't corner you longer and listen to a lot more stories, you have had one heckuva'n interesting life! and never slowed down one bit along the way, congrats to a role model to us all