Giving it all up?

[guydesavoy]

(El_hefe @ Apr. 08 2010,02:43) GG's have the emotional element that is lacking in a lot of lb's it seems to me, but that is a general statement that is not always true I know.

I agree. As much as they try to look like a woman, this is still missing.

[joseph1]

That is the exact reason that I come here about 4 times a year from 4-6 weeks. It is enough time to really enjoy myself, and then get back to reality. By doing this, I always am looking forward to my next trip. There are times when I miss some good things in the USA, so by going back and forth, I am never bored. Only problem of course....the menu in the states really suck...no pun intended.

[Jake1]

The question that has you might have to answer is Why? i.e. reasons..

Are you just tired of headaches from commitment types?
Do you need a short break?
Are you done totally?
Are you no longer attracted to LB's?
Are you looking to settle down?
Is it that you just need some time alone for a bit?

But ultimately up to you bro, do what's right for you.

If you just need some time to yourself and heal yourself emotionally.. go for it. I've done that and even though it takes time.. its well worth it.

[Steff]

Spare Wheel,

There has been a tremendously amount of reaction to your original post and many BMs have offered sound advice. They have also asked questions which I assume is an attempt to advise further. As far as I know you haven't responded to anyone, at least not publicly.

Whazzup with ya?!!?

[ALASKAN BEAR]

(spare wheel @ Apr. 07 2010,01:36) Ever stopped and thought about all of this chasing skirt round Thailand ?
been shaggin ladyboys over 6 yrs now.
got in deep(excuse the pun) and been hurt along the way.
spent a small fortune and dont regret a single penny.
But things over the last few months have made me question a few things and wonder, as im thinking this. Is it time to give it all up ?

your thoughts please


SW  

Ok guy SW is a friend Thailand has been a second home for him and yes he had a gf many years, when i found out i was so happy that maybe i will find the perfect one to. I am not try to tell his story, so i will stop their SW you no who i am first trip and all already have tickets for my next one. a little time away will help you join me and the group next Feb and we will help you over this. and you can keep teaching me the way of the lb force. ok guys we need to get this good man back up on his feet, keep up with the good pointers.


SW this is for you man..

[manarak]

(spare wheel @ Apr. 07 2010,01:36) Ever stopped and thought about all of this chasing skirt round Thailand ?
been shaggin ladyboys over 6 yrs now.
got in deep(excuse the pun) and been hurt along the way.
spent a small fortune and dont regret a single penny.
But things over the last few months have made me question a few things and wonder, as im thinking this. Is it time to give it all up ?

your thoughts please


SW  

classical cycle:

trip to LOS --> shag shag shag --> satisfaction not up to par with first LOS experiences --> return home --> desillusionment --> question of the greater goal --> self-disgust --> decision (or thought) to stop it all --> trying to enjoy home and western life for some time --> surf porn on the net --> look at LB pics/visit the TLF --> hunger comes back --> rinse and repeat.


Question is, what keeps you going back to your country?

[spare wheel]

money

[manarak]

good point - but not necessarily.

do you have any use for the money?


Most of what I make over here as a salary disappears in overpriced rent, taxes, insurance premiums, overpriced petrol, overpriced food, overpriced clothes, etc...
A bar-hopping evening in my town here would set me back by about 200 USD...

Nothing keeps me here.
Certainly not the perspective of taking a mortgage and buying a 5 room city apartment for approx. 1.5 million dollars (nothing luxurious, just about 160 sqm for the family of 4), and to pay the mortgage over the next 40 years...
That's a slave's life, and there is no way to opt out here.

[Buddy]

(manarak @ Apr. 09 2010,04:10)

(spare wheel @ Apr. 07 2010,01:36) Ever stopped and thought about all of this chasing skirt round Thailand ?
been shaggin ladyboys over 6 yrs now.
got in deep(excuse the pun) and been hurt along the way.
spent a small fortune and dont regret a single penny.
But things over the last few months have made me question a few things and wonder, as im thinking this. Is it time to give it all up ?

your thoughts please


SW  

classical cycle:

trip to LOS --> shag shag shag --> satisfaction not up to par with first LOS experiences --> return home --> desillusionment --> question of the greater goal --> self-disgust --> decision (or thought) to stop it all --> trying to enjoy home and western life for some time --> surf porn on the net --> look at LB pics/visit the TLF --> hunger comes back --> rinse and repeat.


Question is, what keeps you going back to your country?

good pay and something to do in the daytime.

[Bobcat]

SW love it complete radio silence over the last few days. A flurry of posts considering your potential breakdown and pull yourself together lad.

A simple & solitary post "Money" pops up. The root of all evil & survival. The cornerstone of the LB scene. Fantastic.............  

What a great thread & Manarak "Rinse & Repeat the classic cycle"

[guydesavoy]

Nice precis

[spare wheel]

(ALASKAN BEAR @ Apr. 09 2010,04:05)

(spare wheel @ Apr. 07 2010,01:36) Ever stopped and thought about all of this chasing skirt round Thailand ?
been shaggin ladyboys over 6 yrs now.
got in deep(excuse the pun) and been hurt along the way.
spent a small fortune and dont regret a single penny.
But things over the last few months have made me question a few things and wonder, as im thinking this. Is it time to give it all up ?

your thoughts please


SW  

 Ok guy SW is a friend Thailand has been a second home for him and yes he had a gf many years, when i found out i was so happy that maybe i will find the perfect one to.  I am not try to tell his story, so i will stop their SW you no who i am first trip and all already have tickets for my next one. a little time away will help you join me and the group next Feb and we will help you over this. and you can keep teaching me the way of the lb force. ok guys we need to get this good man back up on his feet, keep up with the good pointers.


SW this is for you man..        

Hey Bear, would be great to do a Feb trip again.
Thanks for the support buddy. But this time it's not about the girl or some blog that someone made up.
To be honest to all, Phuket has been great to me over the years, and where as i thought someone was a friend has proved that they cannot be trusted.
I'm not going away from site or can I give up the lb's , a great member of this very board has said to me " we have chosen this life " and it's great. So I won't be giving up that easy. I just guess I won't be visiting a place I loved due to the circumstances. So please everyone don't jump the gun. It's not about the girl or a bar, more about myself & 3 other people and lots of missing money.

Thanks to the guys who have pm'd me, you know who are and have helped greatly.

Still on board the lb gravy train

SW

[spare wheel]

I would like to ask if the Mod's or Mr BS can lock this thread now.
I have been given some sound advice from some great BM's and am working on the problems I have attached myself to.
But can it be left up as to show others what great bunch of guys there is on here as those who have helped me are sure to help others in the future.

Thanks guys beer on me when I see you next.

SW

[PigDogg]

Locked at the request of Spare Wheel.