Silly Question from a newbie

[tambourine man]

I had to ask after seeing the thread of Bee.
http://asiantsgirls.com/cgi-bin/boar...=ST;f=7;t=5278

It featured a photo of her looking like a stunner. There was another pic of her out of the shower without make up. She looked like a bloke!

I have yet to dip my toes in the LB world, I have my trip coming up soon. but how do you feel, taking a stunner back to your hotel and in the morning after the make up's gone following the shower, she looks like a guy? Are there feelings of shame or questioning of sexuality, that you slept with man in drag? I dont know how I will react in that situation. Maybe go for GGs instead?

The closer the trip comes I am getting cold feet.

[Ladyboy_Loser!]

My God, the answer to your concerns is very simple. Only go short time and you will not have the problem of shame. If this is going to be your first experiance then you do have legitimate issues to deal with. By the by, do you think that a GG "stunner" from a bar is going to look the same after spending the night with you? I think you need to get real and deal with why you want to be with a Ladyboy in the first place.

[stogie bear]

Go for GGs! We won't mind!

[Road Runner]

(tambourine man @ Apr. 18 2006,23:38) in the morning after the make up's gone following the shower, she looks like a guy?

The closer the trip comes I am getting cold feet.

   

Hello Tambourine man,

Shouldn't laugh but I found your opening line really funny.

Anyway  -  It could be worse  -  just think of Prince Charles  -  he has to wake up next to Camila Parker Bowles  

Lets face it  -  many gg's look 'less polished' in the morning  -  also many ladyboys actually look better (much better) than girls without makeup.

One way to avoid the morning after shock -  if it's a big a deal  -  is to only go ST (short time).
Personally I love to wake up next to a sexy ladyboy  -  feel her soft skin  -  her nice firm arse  -  and her morning hardon  

Anyway think of her point of view  -  she has to wake up next to you!


Go there and enjoy yourself - if ladyboys are not for you - there are plenty of girls to choose from.

RR.

[Guest]

T man,

It's hard to give advice, so I'll just list what I might do:

First, make sure that you are attracted to lbs, and understand why/how. ie. Do you get horny when you see tits with cock, or pretty(feminine) face with cock?... Be clear on what you like/lust.

When you get to a bar, take your time and have fun. If you are concern about the morning after, maybe choose a girl with less make up. I'd say try to be comfortable; but to be comfortable, you will have to push the envelop from time to time.

You may think you'd have problem with the morning after, but what about the voice? I found a deep voice is more disturbing. At least in the morning I can hold my lb from behind, avoid gazing on her face, while squeezing her tits or cock- (or cocks in Billy's case). (I think it's call spooning)

Whatever happens, I hope you will enjoy your trip. Push your envelop, have fun, laugh and the hell with the quilt.

PS to Billy: Hope you don't mind I use your name. Couldn't resist the humor.

Ronin

[tambourine man]

I was getting after thoughts when someone grassed up my true intentions for visiting LOS and I was just sent this in an email:

1 Cor 6 v15-20
"Do you not know that your bodies are members of Christ himself? Shall I then take the members of Christ and unite them with a prostitute? Never! 16Do you not know that he who unites himself with a prostitute is one with her in body? For it is said, "The two will become one flesh."[b] 17But he who unites himself with the Lord is one with him in spirit.

18Flee from sexual immorality. All other sins a man commits are outside his body, but he who sins sexually sins against his own body. 19Do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit, who is in you, whom you have received from God? You are not your own; 20you were bought at a price. Therefore honor God with your body."

I am not god fearing or religious. But I dont harm or do wrong to others if I can. I know many church goers do the opposite to what they preach. This was sent to rattle my conscience no doubt.

In Thai culture or religion, LBs are allowed or accepted? It is not there as part of the seedy side of tourism? It is not seen as 'sinful', like how christian fundaments attack pornography, homosexuality, alcohol, gambling??

[tambourine man]

I should have sent this before the email above with the bible verse!

I noticed LBs are always referred to as 'she' or 'her' never 'he' or 'him' despite being called 'ladyboy'. This is reasurring and helps to put you psychologically into thinking your with a female and not a man in drag. She has here own hair, boobs and feminine voice and hands, nails and skin. Only thing she has a dick and a bum instead of a fanny. So they would take it as an insult if you referred to a LB as a 'he'? They dont seethemselves as a 'he'? So what am I worried about? I have never touched another cock before or had someone else who has one, touch mine. Some culture shock awaitens. Maybe if I got half pissed it may loosen things up? But Ive been teetotal after a serious car accident as a teenager.

I got 15 days to go to my trip

[BAM]

(tambourine man @ Apr. 19 2006,05:38) There was another pic of her out of the shower without make up. She looked like a bloke!

I don't think she looks that much like a bloke out of the shower do you? ..... OK maybe just a little in the face.  

[post-op lover]

Bam, you're a bad man. Bad, bad man.

Anyhow, T-man, you can ease into it with the following regimen:
Day 1: 2 GGs
Day 2: 1 GG, 1 post-op
Day 3: 1 GG, 1 post-op
Day 4: 2 post-ops
Day 5: 3 post-ops
Day 6: 6 post-ops
Day 7: rest

I'm not sure where cocks come into this. I don't think there's time.

[69billy]

(stogie bear @ Apr. 19 2006,00:18) Go for GGs! We won't mind!  

More LBs for us...
PS..
ronin.... we are all here to have fun....

Pss..
Bam, you're a bad man. Bad, bad man.

Anyhow, T-man, you can ease into it with the following regimen:
Day 1: 2 GGs
Day 2: 1 GG, 1 post-op
Day 3: 1 GG, 1 post-op
Day 4: 2 post-ops
Day 5: 3 post-ops
Day 6: 6 post-ops
Day 7: rest

I want to see the photos to proof it

[rob69in]

There is nothing wrong with a muscular women quite a few body builders do tricks on the side.

[Road Runner]

(rob69in @ Apr. 22 2006,00:09) There is nothing wrong with a muscular women quite a few body builders do tricks on the side.

       

Sorry Rob69in  -  but I fail to see how anyone can find these so-called women attractive!

Most of them are so dosed-up with steroides that they place their lives at risk and are not capable of conceiving children.

Many ladyboys on the other hand desperately wish to have children even though this is not biologically possible.

RR.

[rob69in]

Unfotunately in my rather colourful past i have managed to sleep with more than my fare share of...... anything really, if it turned me on & was available i slept with it & had a lot of fun too.

[Guest]

(rob69in @ Apr. 21 2006,18:19) Unfotunately in my rather colourful past i have managed to sleep with more than my fare share of...... anything really, if it turned me on & was available i slept with it & had a lot of fun too

Robin,

A colourful past is never unfortunate.

No regret, that's what I say.

Rock on!! (is there an Emoticon for Rock on?)

Ronin

[Randyman]

(ronin @ Apr. 21 2006,20:40) Rock on!!  (is there an Emoticon for Rock on?)

Ronin