I like Ladyboy's BUT...

[Chinaman]

I honestly resent all those labels like cocksucker, gay, bi-sexual, etc. These are mainly for others to categorize us or whoever.

I like girls and women, but I find lbs fascinating. I prefer them pre-op as most of the time their pussies seem too artificial. I go for a mixture of looks, attitude and personality. I see them as girls or females unless they are too boyish or too manly for me, but that is of course something personal.

But so far I have kept my "secret" mostly to myself as I know that most friends would not understand the fine difference. For me there is a BIG difference between spending a night with a lb or a gay guy, but who knows what will develop over the years ;-)

When in LOS, I am usually quite open about my relationships with lbs, but I honestly don't know what I would do if I ran into someone from my job or life back home ...

I prefer to look at things for what they really are and not for what they could also be ...

Am I worried to be considered gay - yes.

[Chinaman]

But on second thought I might be more worried about being seen with a prostitute than a lb - this is all extremely complex and 4 answers cannot cover the intricacy of the topic, despite having voted for no.1 myself.

[abba]

... i read a report yesterday about a survey done in a Californian College of 14-19 year olds ...

Ages 14-19?  
I am not so sure that this college is located in California, unless it goes by the name "Disneyland".      

[azza33]

I voted: I like Ladyboy's but I'm none of the above!

Now maybe someone else has touched on this already...

But this discussion/poll is based on your thoughts about you own actions/beliefs.

Has anyone considered the ladyboy here.
My observations-
1) they are born guys - took me a while to figure that out
2) they are attracted to guys
3) many are into gay porno and have even taken some BM to gay shows
4) many have feminine mindsets

So majority of this would tend to indicate they are gay.

And we are guys who love to shag a person of the same sex that is pretty much gay~

Does this really help us solve the answer - probably not!

But would the 60% who consider themselves straight like to reconsider where they sit in this picture?

[bill520]

A lot of Ladyboys out shine a lot of women in the feminine category, and a lot of women  have lost their femininity in their search for their independence from man. A lot of Ladyboys prefer straight men over gay men, and most gay men prefer men over Ladyboys. The reasons some men are attracted to Ladyboys are, they look, act, talk, walk, and smell, like woman. These are all the things that straight men are attracted to and Gay men are not, they act the way women use to act. Some on this board say I am gay, but justify themselves as straight, because they only have anal sex with ladyboys and wouldn€™t think of looking at or touching her cock. Then there are those who say I am gay because I like ladyboys, and they like Ladyboys, but also like men and women. Some gay men are attracted to the Cary Grants of the world others to the Randy Macho Man Savage type, I am not attracted to either. I will admit Cary Grant was a good looking man, but I am not attracted towards him, and don€™t want to have sex with him or Randy Macho Man Savage. You can label me what you want, but I Like women and will continue to enjoy the company of the new, and €œimproved€ woman.  ( PS for those who say ladyboys are men, and not women is that what you tell them when you are enjoying their companionship.)

[abba]

what you tell them when you are enjoying their companionship

"The world's a stage. And each must play their part."

[kathylc]

I love ladyboys, well make that I love a cock but it certsainly does not make me gay................I will also dive into a face full of pussy too so that may hang that old GAY sign around my neck but who really gives a fuck..........its only a label. I really htink a dick or bullge under a pair of nice panties or a fem outfit is superb.

[mirimark]

(kathylc @ Feb. 03 2009,00:26) .......I will also dive into a face full of pussy too

There is a name for this kind of Activity;

  GLazed Doughnut.

Hey,  whats that on your face ?   You Look like a GLazed Doughnut.

Fregg'n U' carpet muncher U'

[robbo]

i love ladyboys,but i will also bugger anything ( except things that burrow underground, fly through the air or eat shit) else if it suits me does that qualify me as a pervert and all rounder?

[Foggy]

Personally Im not in to anyone slightly masculine but love a working functional cock on a hot Lb and have no hang up's being seen about with one, as well as liking pussy too on an in shape hot girl.

My label 'lucky' because it opens the door so much wider...

[robbo]

sorry but that label "lucky" isnt on the list,if you look at the list more in detail

1.im in denial
2.yes im gay so what bitch
3.i like other blokes cocks........um mayby i am gay?
4.you wont get me as im not telling (im closet)

1,2,3,4,.......i must be gay

[halla]

I thought i was straight, but now I've been called an excellent cock sucker.

[brocklanders]

What Bill520 said....I promise I wont talk about the continuum.

Basically, I like Thai ladyboys because they are hotter than Thai girls.  They are taller, have fake tits or hormone tits(thai girls have small tits), are more feminine than the Issan tomboys, and can suck cock better than any girl I have met.     I also love anal sex if I am going to use a condom but prefer the feeling of a bareback pussy.   I despise cock but like the fact that I can see them cum and its not a mystery.  I dont suck cock.  I dont get fucked.

Doesnt make me better than anyone else here but I like the lady part of the ladyboy.  I prefer LB's that are post op or tiny cock that doesnt work.  Although I think I am straight, I dont think that everyone else is necessarily bi or gay because they like ladyboys.    If you prefer feminine ladyboys then you are likely straight.  If you prefer the masculine types or borderline femboys then you are likely at least bi.

I have changed my thoughts on whether the act defines you as gay.   If you touch the ladyboys cock or wank her off but like looking at a hot looking feminine looking girl type then you arent necessarily gay.   I mean, all of us wank our own cocks and touch them so does that make masterbation a gay act?   Also guys that get fucked are not necessrily gay or bi because many like the feeling it gives their prostate and they are looking up at what seems to be a hot chick with big tits who happens to be tickling their prostate and helps them cum.    Sucking cock seems gay to me but then again, its just an act.  Its flesh like anything else.   I cannot get myself to do it and really think cocks are ugly, especially the anteater noses that Thai ladyboys call cocks.

[Guest]

I was always attracted to women.
The more feminine, the more sexy, the more showing there sensual/sexual interest, the better.
The first time I met a TS was 19 y.o. in a bar at Reperbahn in Hamburg.
I was sure she was a woman, and the way she seduced me was such a strong experience. The way she ENJOYED touchjng me and the way she ENJOYED getting her nipples sucked just gave me a new perspective on sexuality. She wanked me off in the bar (a masterpiece of dIscrete and yet wild action), and left me in a state of extreme happiness.
Yet today this part of the game is most important to me. All females and female hookers have a "woman-attitude", always holding a little back.
TS often do the opposite and sometimes too much.
They are women who have a masculine approach to sexuality.
THAT IS MY GAME ! ! ! !

I prefer pussies to assholes. I prefer female hips and butts to maie (very much so), and I definetely prefer the female breast.
I love their active seductive attitude, and their cock is a part of SHOWING this, when it gets hard. And it has to get hard.

The ideal person for me is a not too thin 100% female body, with the man's greed for sex and the man's "vulgar" sexual initiative, a cock that gets hard and big in a long foreplay, I will touch and might suck the cock, and then suddenly, when I am horny enough a tight pussy shows up that I enjoy tne most to fuck while I feel the cock's pressing towards my stomach, or in my hand.

Label?? I SEEK MAXIMUM SENSUAL EXCITEMENT AND VERY ITENSIVE SEXUAL SATISFACTION.

The main thing is the excitement of the foreplay. The looking, the touching, the mutual excitement building up and up and up,----but slowly.
And since the whole thing is hard to find it keeps me on the road,-always looking searching and trying.

Another label: HAPPY ADVENTURER
KO

[Tomcat]

(Chinaman @ Feb. 01 2009,06:52) I honestly resent all those labels like cocksucker, gay, bi-sexual, etc. These are mainly for others to categorize us or whoever.

Others.... what others do you mean...

I doubt if many normal people outside of the Ladyboy world walk around worrying about this all day long.

Anyway if you didnt have labels how the hell can you talk about anything. Butterfly collecters would really have a hard time. The only guys that worry about it is the guys on this forum and thats hardly an issue is it...