I like Ladyboy's BUT...

[Lefty]

IMO, it is called denial.

[CHRIME]

straight.

[EyeMahk]

(tampanugget_2001 @ Jun. 01 2009,10:51) It is beyond me how someone can fuck/suck something with a dick attached and think their "straight."

Dan Savage's sex advice column is printed in a few newspapers in the U.S. (He is gay.) He said it best in this one.

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http://www.thestranger.com/seattle/SavageLove?oid=22548
Back in the Saddle
Savage Love - Dan Savage
August 11, 2005

QUESTION:
I have been seeing this great guy for about two years now. A few months back I stumbled upon some she-male photos on our computer. When I confronted him, he said that it was in response to a "nightmare" he had from watching HBO late at night or something. I asked him to be honest with himself and me. I told him I could be GGG or that we could just be friends if he didn't want to be with a natural woman anymore. He said he wanted to be with me.

Today as I browsed for errant cookies clogging my computer, I found more she-male pics. Is my boyfriend gay? Is there anything I can do to help satisfy him sexually? What can I do emotionally? Is it better to try to maintain the relationship or encourage him to explore his desires? Who can I refer him to? How can I help him?

Guess It Isn't Really Love

ANSWER:
So what's up with the she-male thing? It's like this: Straight boys love tits. Straight boys also love cock. In most cases straight boys are enamored of their own cocks exclusively, and there's nothin' queer about that. But for a tiny minority of straight guys, their love of cock extends to other cocks. This "thing" is most commonly expressed by a taste for "straight" porn that prominently displays cock. Most straight guys who enjoy cock in their porn identify with the other men's cocks, enjoying the thrill of living vicariously through them. But a thin slice of these straight guys actually lust after cock€”but just the dicks, GIIRL, not the dudes. An even thinner slice of this already thin slice of the straight-guy pie actively long for dick€”a dick other than their own€”but they're straight, you see, and they don't want to mess around with an actual dude, just a cock. And that's where she-males come in€”excuse me, cash in. They've got dicks and their dicks aren't attached to dudes. Their dicks are attached to babes, and cock-hungry straight boys will pay them good money for the pleasure of their company.

So is your boyfriend gay? No, he's not. I don't know any gay men who lust after she-males; that obsession is an exclusively straight-identified-male-with-a-hunger-for-cock phenomenon. His she-male obsession technically disqualifies him from the 100-percent-straight category, but it doesn't necessarily make him bi or gay€”just a touch queer. If you're not down with that, well, then DTMFA.

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[KingofNANA]

Living here in Bali where we have quite a few beauties, it's amusing to see how many of my "straight" friends start acting 'funny' around ladyboys when they've had a few drinks.



Basically, she thinks she's a woman, I think I'm a man. All is alright on God's green Earth!

[Guest]

Well...

- a "straight" guy wants to sleep with beautiful women (pamela anderson etc... *lol*)

- a "gay" guy wants to sleep with other men (freddie mercury, arnold schwarzenegger etc...)

- a "bisexual" guy wants to go to bed with pamela anderson and freddie mercury ....

Is it really that simple ?

I think that all those terms like "straight" and "gay" are just a product of our western society and (catholic) churches. "Straight" is usually a more positive, more respectable term than "gay". This is so for very good reason: When you are "straight", you probably marry a girl and raise children. These children can continue paying taxes, be soldiers, or whatever useful to the authorities.

So most of the ladyboy admirers prefer to consider themselves as "straight", because they still want to fit into their society. In my opinion there are no clear borders between "straight" and "gay", because these terms are just not truth. Sex is just not about labels and not about what authorities want it to be.

Sex is all about attraction, desire and phantasy. And a very individual thing too.
When you take a look at other centuries, you probably do not find these clear labels about sexuality we do have today. In ancient greece for example, having sex with young (feminine?) boys was just a common thing. Would Alexander the Great have considered himself as "gay" person due to the experiences he might have made in this way ?

So i voted, that i like ladyboys, but i am none of the above.
I would consider myself just as a person with a wider range of sexual options and interests than the average guy from kentucky.

Nothing more, nothing less....

[robbo]

(PanzerPorn @ May 05 2009,19:16) I'm part time faggot but when i'm gay not even the village people could beat me!!!!!!!!!

Lust Knows No Gender (with Various Gender Symbol Combinations).

There is Nothing a Man Can Do that Two Men Can't Do Better (with Gay Pride Flag colors).

this is good Panzer,made me chuckle. like the "part time faggot " bit ,an old Elton john song wasnt it?

[deepthroat]

(Lefty @ Jun. 04 2009,03:06) IMO, it is called denial.  

I can say with just as much certainty that you Lefty are straight.

But I won't, because me making pronouncements about your sexuality would be assinine.

What's that old saying about assumptions?  

[cancer12]

i really love ozzie's wit... some guys have to take gender class...

almost 90 percent of guys i met, view themselves as heterosexual ( as there is no such label as 'straight', that  is so politically incorrect!)

sexuality is a preference, and it should not be based on just one factor.....so if you suck cock, it doesnt mean you are gay!

[fleeing]

(cancer12 @ Dec. 18 2009,07:42) i really love ozzie's wit...

I'm sure he'll trade some wit for a short time  

[whore]

Ok so if some guy who likes sucking ladyboy cock is not gay, then what about taking it up the ass from a ladyboy, is that gay?

If this poll was done on 1000 random people walking down the street, we would all be very gay

But who cares, cause we have more fun then all them straight people.

[cancer12]

the society would think that it is very gay!!! they are the ones who made the labels!!!

but again, sexuality is a preference, if u think you are not a homo nor a heterosexual man, so be it...

[whore]

Am straight monday to friday and gay on the weekends

[manarak]

this is easy.

IF death squads killed all ladyboys and other shemales, would you rather fuck men or women?

[El_hefe]

If you enjoy sucking cocks, or perhaps being molested by a pretty butt bandit, or sleeping in the arms of someone who was born with the Thai name equivalent of John or Nigel..... you're not straight.

What name one gives it is I don't know, but you, or I, aren't straight. I label myself bi, seems fair.

[whore]

I used to see bisexuals as just plain greedy.